Hi, kinky queer girl here. Please don't group kinksters in with sexualities and genders, because it's a completely different topic. What gets you off should be separate from who you get off with, in the acronym sense. I know you're more on the heterosexual side of the spectrum so you might not realize it, but please understand that sexuality is different than sexual interests. Grouping sexual interests with sexualities makes being lesbian reduced to something in the same realm as shibari, and that's just insulting.